Sometimes in life, you need to headbutt through that proverbial wall.
Even though it hurts, you need to headbutt through it so you get through to that other side.
Because sometimes you're stuck, and it's like you're against that proverbial wall, and nothing goes through. And sometimes you need to use your head, and you need to inflict some blunt force trauma, metaphor, to get through to the other side, to be free.
And sometimes it's tough, and sometimes there's no other way through than going through. You can't go above it, you can't go underneath it.
You have to go through the wall, and it's going to hurt. It's going to hurt you, but you have to do it to break through to the other side because what's on the other side is your destiny.